if a gay or bisexual person hits on you in a space that ISN’T specifically gay-friendly and your reaction is to scoff because you might get some gay on you, you need to reevaluate yourself. if you are so fine that someone risks homophobia for you you better say THANK YOU because that shit takes more courage than you will ever have
i mean, treat it the same as you would someone of the opposite sex hitting on you—if you’re attracted and they’re respectful, go for it. if they’re not attractive to you and they’re respectful, say no thank you. and if they’re not respectful, regardless of gender, shut that shit down.